Dexter May Harris aka Gloria Jean Park is a mystery that has intrigued me for
as long as I can remember. While she is biologically my first cousin, once
removed, she is also my adopted aunt.
I have researched both deeply and widely, looking at more than twenty sources
for her, and sussing out information for those whose lives she touched,
including spouses, siblings, parents, and children. Briefly, here is what I
know: Dexter was born 12 May 1921, in Pocatello, Idaho to Alvin James Harris,
34, and his wife, Flora Castello Lee, 23 (Idaho, U.S., Birth Records,
1861-1919, Stillbirth Index, 1905-1967). She was Alvin’s first child, and
Flora’s second, having been married at 18 to William Grenville Bowen, and
having given birth to a daughter in 1918, Ruby Irene Bowen, who lived just 5
months. Sometime before November 1923, the family moved from Pocatello to
Salmon, Idaho, where Flora gave birth prematurely to a son, Allen Duane
Harris, on 4 Nov 1923, who died 11 days later (Idaho, U.S., Death Records,
1890-1971). Four years later, her sister Leona Joleen was born (21 Nov 1927).
At the time of the 1930 census, the family consisted of Alvin Harris, 40,
Flora Harris, 23, Dexter Harris, 6 and Leona Harris, 2, and the family lived
on Water Street in Salmon, Idaho.
Sadly, tragedy would strike the following
year, as her father, Alvin, was killed while loading a truck with logs for
firewood for the family. The death was ruled accidental on the death
certificate, and the informant was his brother, Frank Allen Harris (Idaho,
Death Records, 1890-1967). Frank was appointed Administrator for his brother’s
estate, which consisted of: No cash in bank, personal property worth $185,
including 1 cow, a second-hand Dodge truck, a motor trailer, household goods,
and $400 equity in 3 acres of land, known as the Pugh Property on upper Main
Street in Salmon (Idaho, U.S., Wills and Probate Records, 1857-1989).
The remaining family lived together until January 1935, at which time, Dexter,
13, was formally adopted by her uncle and aunt, Frank Allen and Minnie Lee
Agee Harris, and she joined their family of five children, including my
father, Floyd Duane Harris (Application and Order of Adoption, Lemhi County
Probate Court). Her mother, Flora, then married her third husband, John
Valentine Abbey, taking her younger daughter, Leona, with her (Western States
Marriage Index, 1809-2011). In October, 1935, Flora gave birth to her last
known child, Lois Irene Abbey. Dexter would remain with Frank and Minnie just
16 months, as she married with their consent (Affidavit of Consent to
Marriage, County of Lemhi), Richard Walter Evans, 18, on 30 Jun 1937, at the
age of 16 (Western States Marriage Index, 1809-2011).
It is likely she had
known Richard a number of years, as he was the son of Minnie’s sister, Mettie.
On 3 Jun 1938, she gave birth to their first child, Richard A. Evans, who
lived to adulthood. Unfortunately, the next three children did not survive
infanthood. Alvin Delbert (17 Oct 1939 – 17 Dec 1939) died of a digestive
condition resulting from premature birth and no subsequent medical attention
(Idaho, U.S., Death Records, 1890-1971). Daughter, Shirley Ann, also died at 2
months (6 Nov 1940 – 7 Jan 1941) from influenza (Idaho, U.S., Death Records,
1890-1971). Their final child, Ronald Jean Evans was born 19 May 1942, in
Salmon, Idaho, and died 18 months later, on 17 Nov 1943. There are several
mysterious things about this death. The cause of death was gastroenteritis,
due to teething, and the child died in the State School and Hospital in Nampa,
Idaho, which was more than 250 miles from their home (Idaho, U.S., Death
Records, 1890-1971).
At this point, we lose track of Dexter until seven years later, when she shows
up in the 1950 census, in the household of George L Creech, in Chapel Hill,
Georgia. The household consists of: George L Creech, 26, Gloria Jean Creech,
25, Helen Patricia Creech, 3, and Jerry Lee Creech, 1 (1950 United States
Federal Census).
The next official documentation we have of her is her marriage on 10 May 1979 to
Lawrence F Brewer, Jr. in Vancouver, Washington (Washington, Marriage Records,
1854-2013), where she is listed as Gloria Jean Park. Five months later, on 15
Oct 1979, she divorces him, using the name Gloria Harris (Oregon, Divorce
Records, 1961-1985), in Yamhill, Oregon. Her death is documented in the Oregon,
Death Index, 1898-2008, under the name Gloria Jean Park, on 22 Mar 1999, and in
the U.S., Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936-2007. This is a
key source, as it ties together the various pieces of her identity. It lists:
Name: Gloria Jean Brewer, Female, Birth Date: 12 May 1921, Birth Place:
Pocatello, Idaho, Death Date: 22 Mar 1999, Claim Date: 24 Nov 1976. Father:
Alvin J Harris, Mother: Flora C Lee, Type of Claim: Duplicate request; evidence
of identity only submitted. Notes: 12 Jun 1979: Name listed as GLORIA JEAN
BREWER; 29 Feb 1980: Name listed as GLORIA JEAN PARK; 02 Nov 1976: Name listed
as GLORIA J PARK.
Informal sources, such as family obituaries, help fill in a
few more details. We find her listed in Frank Allen Harris’ obituary in Oct
1957, as Dexter Park, living in Compton, California (The Recorder Herald,
Salmon, Idaho, 10 Oct 1957). Her son, Richard Evans, died at the age of 35, and
lists her as mother, Mrs. Gloria J. Park. When her mother, Flora, dies in
McMinnville, OR, in 1985, we find her as Gloria Jean Park, McMinnville
(Statesman Journal, Salem, Oregon 07 Aug 1985, Wed, Page 14). Her remaining son,
Jerry Lee Creech, dies in June 2018 in Atlanta, GA, and lists his mother, Gloria
Harris as preceding him in death. Her own obituary, is reproduced here from the
Statesman Journal, Salem, Oregon 25 Mar 1999, Page 24:
May 12, 1921 - March 22,
1999
McMINNVILLE Gloria Park, 77, died Monday at her home. Born in Pocatello,
Idaho, she was raised and educated in Salmon, Idaho. She moved to Carlton in
1959, Portland in 1966 and McMinnville in 1968. She was a home-care provider for
many years. She belonged to Assembly of God Church. Survivors include her
daughter, Patricia Kalogerokis of Atlanta, Ga.; son, Jerry Creech of Atlanta;
sisters, Joleen Shipley of Mount Home, Idaho and Lois Steele of Carlton; and
three grandchildren. Visiting will be 2 to 7 p.m. today at Macy and Son Funeral
Directors. Services will be 2:30 p in. Friday at Yamhill-Carlton Pioneer
Cemetery.
Now the questions:
First the children –
Why did Ronald Evans die in an
institution a full day’s drive from where they lived?
Is Frances May Evans the
child of Dexter and Richard, or Charity and Richard?
As best I can tell, her two
children by George Creech remained with their father when she left. Why?
Where
is Patricia Creech now, dead or alive?
The marriages –
I can only find partial
documentation for two out of four probable marriages.
Marriage to Richard Walter
Evans – 30 Jun 1937 to unknown
Marriage (?) to George Lee Creech – no
documentation, but is living with him in 1950, with two children, aged 3 and 1.
Marriage (?) to unknown Park spouse – appears to have happened between the
1950’s and 1976
Marriage to Lawrence Frank Brewer, Jr – 10 May 1979 to 15 Oct
1979 – have both marriage and divorce records
The locations –
When and why did she leave Idaho, and did she go directly to Georgia, or did she meet George
someplace and they moved to Georgia?
When and why did she leave Georgia, without
her children? Is this when she went to Compton, CA?
The names –
After she left
Richard Evans, it was almost like she was trying to reinvent herself, changing
her name from Dexter May to Gloria Jean. The first documented use of the Park
surname is in 1976, prior to her marriage to Lawrence Brewer, but she seems to
go back to it, and use it for the remainder of her life after she divorces him.
