Sunday, March 26, 2023

Solving the Mystery of Dexter May Harris aka Gloria Jean Park (A genealogical case study)

Dexter May Harris aka Gloria Jean Park is a mystery that has intrigued me for as long as I can remember. While she is biologically my first cousin, once removed, she is also my adopted aunt.

I have researched both deeply and widely, looking at more than twenty sources for her, and sussing out information for those whose lives she touched, including spouses, siblings, parents, and children. Briefly, here is what I know: Dexter was born 12 May 1921, in Pocatello, Idaho to Alvin James Harris, 34, and his wife, Flora Castello Lee, 23 (Idaho, U.S., Birth Records, 1861-1919, Stillbirth Index, 1905-1967). She was Alvin’s first child, and Flora’s second, having been married at 18 to William Grenville Bowen, and having given birth to a daughter in 1918, Ruby Irene Bowen, who lived just 5 months. Sometime before November 1923, the family moved from Pocatello to Salmon, Idaho, where Flora gave birth prematurely to a son, Allen Duane Harris, on 4 Nov 1923, who died 11 days later (Idaho, U.S., Death Records, 1890-1971). Four years later, her sister Leona Joleen was born (21 Nov 1927). At the time of the 1930 census, the family consisted of Alvin Harris, 40, Flora Harris, 23, Dexter Harris, 6 and Leona Harris, 2, and the family lived on Water Street in Salmon, Idaho.

Sadly, tragedy would strike the following year, as her father, Alvin, was killed while loading a truck with logs for firewood for the family. The death was ruled accidental on the death certificate, and the informant was his brother, Frank Allen Harris (Idaho, Death Records, 1890-1967). Frank was appointed Administrator for his brother’s estate, which consisted of: No cash in bank, personal property worth $185, including 1 cow, a second-hand Dodge truck, a motor trailer, household goods, and $400 equity in 3 acres of land, known as the Pugh Property on upper Main Street in Salmon (Idaho, U.S., Wills and Probate Records, 1857-1989).

The remaining family lived together until January 1935, at which time, Dexter, 13, was formally adopted by her uncle and aunt, Frank Allen and Minnie Lee Agee Harris, and she joined their family of five children, including my father, Floyd Duane Harris (Application and Order of Adoption, Lemhi County Probate Court). Her mother, Flora, then married her third husband, John Valentine Abbey, taking her younger daughter, Leona, with her (Western States Marriage Index, 1809-2011). In October, 1935, Flora gave birth to her last known child, Lois Irene Abbey. Dexter would remain with Frank and Minnie just 16 months, as she married with their consent (Affidavit of Consent to Marriage, County of Lemhi), Richard Walter Evans, 18, on 30 Jun 1937, at the age of 16 (Western States Marriage Index, 1809-2011).

It is likely she had known Richard a number of years, as he was the son of Minnie’s sister, Mettie. On 3 Jun 1938, she gave birth to their first child, Richard A. Evans, who lived to adulthood. Unfortunately, the next three children did not survive infanthood. Alvin Delbert (17 Oct 1939 – 17 Dec 1939) died of a digestive condition resulting from premature birth and no subsequent medical attention (Idaho, U.S., Death Records, 1890-1971). Daughter, Shirley Ann, also died at 2 months (6 Nov 1940 – 7 Jan 1941) from influenza (Idaho, U.S., Death Records, 1890-1971). Their final child, Ronald Jean Evans was born 19 May 1942, in Salmon, Idaho, and died 18 months later, on 17 Nov 1943. There are several mysterious things about this death. The cause of death was gastroenteritis, due to teething, and the child died in the State School and Hospital in Nampa, Idaho, which was more than 250 miles from their home (Idaho, U.S., Death Records, 1890-1971).

At this point, we lose track of Dexter until seven years later, when she shows up in the 1950 census, in the household of George L Creech, in Chapel Hill, Georgia. The household consists of: George L Creech, 26, Gloria Jean Creech, 25, Helen Patricia Creech, 3, and Jerry Lee Creech, 1 (1950 United States Federal Census).

The next official documentation we have of her is her marriage on 10 May 1979 to Lawrence F Brewer, Jr. in Vancouver, Washington (Washington, Marriage Records, 1854-2013), where she is listed as Gloria Jean Park. Five months later, on 15 Oct 1979, she divorces him, using the name Gloria Harris (Oregon, Divorce Records, 1961-1985), in Yamhill, Oregon. Her death is documented in the Oregon, Death Index, 1898-2008, under the name Gloria Jean Park, on 22 Mar 1999, and in the U.S., Social Security Applications and Claims Index, 1936-2007. This is a key source, as it ties together the various pieces of her identity. It lists: Name: Gloria Jean Brewer, Female, Birth Date: 12 May 1921, Birth Place: Pocatello, Idaho, Death Date: 22 Mar 1999, Claim Date: 24 Nov 1976. Father: Alvin J Harris, Mother: Flora C Lee, Type of Claim: Duplicate request; evidence of identity only submitted. Notes: 12 Jun 1979: Name listed as GLORIA JEAN BREWER; 29 Feb 1980: Name listed as GLORIA JEAN PARK; 02 Nov 1976: Name listed as GLORIA J PARK.

Informal sources, such as family obituaries, help fill in a few more details. We find her listed in Frank Allen Harris’ obituary in Oct 1957, as Dexter Park, living in Compton, California (The Recorder Herald, Salmon, Idaho, 10 Oct 1957). Her son, Richard Evans, died at the age of 35, and lists her as mother, Mrs. Gloria J. Park. When her mother, Flora, dies in McMinnville, OR, in 1985, we find her as Gloria Jean Park, McMinnville (Statesman Journal, Salem, Oregon 07 Aug 1985, Wed, Page 14). Her remaining son, Jerry Lee Creech, dies in June 2018 in Atlanta, GA, and lists his mother, Gloria Harris as preceding him in death. Her own obituary, is reproduced here from the Statesman Journal, Salem, Oregon 25 Mar 1999, Page 24:

May 12, 1921 - March 22, 1999

McMINNVILLE Gloria Park, 77, died Monday at her home. Born in Pocatello, Idaho, she was raised and educated in Salmon, Idaho. She moved to Carlton in 1959, Portland in 1966 and McMinnville in 1968. She was a home-care provider for many years. She belonged to Assembly of God Church. Survivors include her daughter, Patricia Kalogerokis of Atlanta, Ga.; son, Jerry Creech of Atlanta; sisters, Joleen Shipley of Mount Home, Idaho and Lois Steele of Carlton; and three grandchildren. Visiting will be 2 to 7 p.m. today at Macy and Son Funeral Directors. Services will be 2:30 p in. Friday at Yamhill-Carlton Pioneer Cemetery.

Now the questions:

First the children –

Why did Ronald Evans die in an institution a full day’s drive from where they lived?
Is Frances May Evans the child of Dexter and Richard, or Charity and Richard?
As best I can tell, her two children by George Creech remained with their father when she left. Why?
Where is Patricia Creech now, dead or alive?

The marriages –

I can only find partial documentation for two out of four probable marriages.
Marriage to Richard Walter Evans – 30 Jun 1937 to unknown
Marriage (?) to George Lee Creech – no documentation, but is living with him in 1950, with two children, aged 3 and 1.
Marriage (?) to unknown Park spouse – appears to have happened between the 1950’s and 1976
Marriage to Lawrence Frank Brewer, Jr – 10 May 1979 to 15 Oct 1979 – have both marriage and divorce records

The locations –

When and why did she leave Idaho, and did she go directly to Georgia, or did she meet George someplace and they moved to Georgia?
When and why did she leave Georgia, without her children? Is this when she went to Compton, CA?

The names –

After she left Richard Evans, it was almost like she was trying to reinvent herself, changing her name from Dexter May to Gloria Jean. The first documented use of the Park surname is in 1976, prior to her marriage to Lawrence Brewer, but she seems to go back to it, and use it for the remainder of her life after she divorces him.

Monday, December 12, 2022

Leap of Faith: Memoirs of an Unexpected Life by Queen Noor

Leap of Faith: Memoirs of an Unexpected LifeLeap of Faith: Memoirs of an Unexpected Life by Queen Noor
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Having recently read Becoming by Michelle Obama may have influenced, in a small way, how I felt about this book. It was such a contrast to the other book, although there were many similarities to the women themselves.
Queen Noor, born Lisa Halaby, is a graduate of the first coed class at Princeton, and the daughter of an aviation executive. She was working in the airlines industry when she became friends with King Hussein, an avid aviator himself. They fell in love, and soon married, she becoming his 3rd wife and stepmother to his three children, and eventual mother to four more.
During their twenty year marriage, she developed many humanitarian programs to better the life of women and worked side by side with her husband to promote peace in the middle east. She devoted her life to being a helpmate to the king, while still having her own identity.
I particularly enjoyed seeing a different perspective of the Arab-Israeli conflict, knowing that each story has multiple sides. Queen Noor seems like a generous, gracious woman, who didn't come across as whiny at all, and served her country and the world for many years.

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Saturday, December 10, 2022

Warmest holiday greetings, friends

Welcome to the 2022 Myers holiday news letter. I hope your year was wonderful and filled with happy memories, as ours was. It was a busy, productive year the highlights of which include: - Conversion of our garage to a great room/office, where we spent much of our waking hours. It's easily my favorite part of the house. - My sister and brother-in-law moving to Crossville from Gatlinburg in June. Having Gail nearby to do things with has brightened my life! - Visits from the Cayeas, including the grandsons, and Corey and Jess several times. We reciprocated, and went to NY for Arian's graduation, and to Indy several times, including once to see Alton Brown. - Some small trips to Chattanooga for our anniversary, Berea,KY for a crafting weekend, and Athens,TN for a beekeeping conference. - Hobbies such as geocaching, gardening, and genealogy have also kept one or more of us busy this year. The garden did well (squash, anyone?), and the family tree keeps growing. Send me your family stories! - Finally, a couple of big trips created some great memories for us. We went to New Orleans in the spring with John's aunt and uncle (Sharon and Chuck). We've wanted to go back there since 2005, when we first went, a few months before Katrina. And, we recently returned from a trip to Hawai'i to see Matt, Niah, and little Waffles, who is so much bigger than when we saw her a few years ago. Hawai'i was beautiful, and visiting with family was wonderful. Tourist-wise, we made it to Pearl Harbor (twice) this trip, which was such a moving experience. What was the best part of 2022 for you? Please leave a memory or two in the comments section below. In the meantime, enjoy a few photos of the year.

Thursday, December 8, 2022

The Storm Sister by Lucinda Riley

The Storm Sister (The Seven Sisters, #2)The Storm Sister by Lucinda Riley
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book is told from the perspective of Ally, the second of six (known) sisters based on the Seven Sisters constellation. Ally is a gifted sailor and musician, and is out on the water with her captain/lover when she finds out that Pa Salt (her adopted father) has died, perhaps mysteriously. At the funeral, she and her sisters are given clues that will lead them to their family origin, and feeling at a loss, and unable to bring herself to sail in an upcoming race, Ally decides to follow the clues to Norway, where her story interweaves with a singer from a hundred years ago, Anna Landvik. The book is cleverly interwoven from that point, alternating from Anna's life to Ally's. I loved reading Anna's story, having a Norwegian heritage myself, it helped me to imagine what life might have been like for some of my ancestors. Excellent, though long, book that encourages me to continue reading the series.

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Friday, November 11, 2022

Sing, Unburied, Sing by Jesmyn Ward

Sing, Unburied, SingSing, Unburied, Sing by Jesmyn Ward
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Such a powerful book, the ending gave me chills. Jojo and his toddler sister, Kayla, live with their grandparents, Mam and Pop, and the occasional presence of their drug-addicted mother, Leonie, on a farm on the Gulf Coast of Mississippi. Their father, a white man named Michael, is just being released from Parchman prison, a place that is central to the story. Parchman is a place of evil, where men and women are treated less well than animals, burned alive for escaping or set on by dogs to be torn apart. Pop did a stint there as a young man, and the ghosts follow him still.
This book won many awards, most noticably: National Book Award for Fiction (2017), Anisfield-Wolf Book Award for Fiction (2018), PEN/Faulkner Award for Fiction Nominee (2018), Los Angeles Times Book Prize Nominee for Fiction (2017), Dayton Literary Peace Prize Nominee for Fiction (2018), National Book Critics Circle Award Nominee for Fiction (2017), Hurston/Wright Legacy Award Nominee for Fiction (2018), Women's Prize for Fiction Nominee (2018), Andrew Carnegie Medal Nominee for Fiction (2018), Kirkus Prize Nominee for Fiction (2017), and several others. It is easy to see why, even if it isn't an easy book to read.


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Monday, October 31, 2022

Genealogy 101: Never Assume Murder by Carol Grieshop

Genealogy 101: Never Assume MurderGenealogy 101: Never Assume Murder by Carol Grieshop
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

3.5 rounded to 4 stars - I loved the subject matter - a genealogist who walks you through the research process while telling a good tale. Even more, I loved the fact that it was based in nearby Rugby, TN, a Victorian utopian village about an hour north of my home. We visited last year and learned some of the history of the village, and the book does a wonderful job of bringing it to life.
This was obviously the author's debut novel, and self-published. There were a few errors that a good editor would have caught (punctuation, one run-on sentence), and a little too much food/clothing descriptions, but overall a nice book that I enjoyed reading and shared with my sister afterwards.

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Thursday, October 6, 2022

May We Forever Stand: A History of the Black National Anthem by Imani Perry

May We Forever Stand: A History of the Black National AnthemMay We Forever Stand: A History of the Black National Anthem by Imani Perry
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I didn't know about this song until recently. How could that be? This book, written by Imani Perry, a professor of African American studies at Princeton traces the history of the song, from its creation by two brothers in the early 20th century through its adoption by the Black community, NAACP, its drop in popularity during the 1970s and its current rise in prominence since the George Floyd protests. It is a book rich in history and culture, and befitting its academic origin, well documented.
Highly recommended.

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